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The cursed Indian males …….


The cursed Indian males …….


If a women hurts/cheats another women, shall it be labelled as crime against women ?  Yes it is. However, for all crime against women, Men are held responsible, and laws are enacted to that effect, to harass and punish  Men. Going by the question, when a man is hurt/harassed, it should be labelled as crime against men. And should laws be framed to hold women responsible for that ? And going by numbers, crime against men is a much much bigger issue, then crime against women

The general perception is that crime against women, necessarily means that a man, must have harassed an abla naari. Going by reality on ground, this is very incorrect. Unfortunately by reality, people today believe, what is shown in media. Media doesn't show reality, they show, news items, that are spicy.  A news like "girl molested/raped" gets more viewership, then one, which says, "farmer used innovative techniques to improve crop production". So media tries hard to find news about women who are being harassed. Crime against Men, well people don't even think about it, since it is not so spicy. Not a spicy topic to do time pass discussion.

Below is a real life incidence which happened recently in Delhi. Delhi is commonly referred to as Rape Capital of India.

A young man was standing in the balcony(road facing) of his house, and enjoying the peaceful atmosphere. A few moments later a car stopped near a girl in the middle of the road. A boy stepped out of the car, and started talking with the girl. They were having a heated argument in a very loud tone and rowdy language, breaking the peace of the area. The young man politely told them not to create a ruckus. On hearing this, the girl arrogantly shouted on the young man, and yelled "This is not your Daddy's road, shut up, and go inside you jerk, or I'll kick your ass now". The young man was taken aback, but replied "Shut up else, I'll hit you". On this the girl replied, "Trying to act smart, try answering the police, on why you have molested a girl".  Since the young man hadn't done anything wrong, he dared her to call police. The girl, called police, and police arrived on the scene. The girl's friend called more people, and there was a crowd near the young man's house, baying for his blood, for molesting a girl. In front of the crowd, the girl accused the young man of making lewd comments on her, and started crying loudly. Tears started flowing from her eyes, she said, the young man abused her. The girl started insisting to file a police complaint. Looking at the girl's tears, the crowd was convinced that the young man had molested the girl. The young man was amazed to see the girls change in behavior.  Fortunately for the young man, hearing all this commotion, his parents and neighbors stepped in for him. Police took statement of the neighbors, and the girl. Police realized that it was  false complaint, and didn't filed any complaint.

Now the young man is being constantly strongly advised to control his emotions, not to get into any altercation and not to act stupid. He is being constantly reminded to not create any sort of trouble, and to be well behaved. The girl is being consoled, and told not to worry about such things, she has lot of people to rely on. If the young man, wouldn't have had anyone to support him, he would have been in jail now for raping an ablaa naari(utterly helpless) girl.
  With the current set of laws, we have such grim situation in India. After the alleged rape of a women in Delhi, there has been a strong demand to create more harsher laws to protect women against sexual harassment. And the proposed draconian anti-rape law is in its final stages of becoming a law.
 
One thing is very clear from such incidences, that even with the current set of laws, young women know very well how to misuse the laws to harass males. The message is very clear, always silently bear any rubbish  behaviour of girls. Else be prepared to be slapped with false accusations of rape. The above like incidences are routinely reported as rape in news channels. The way the such news is projected, all sympathy goes to the un-mannered young girl. All this makes me wonder who is really raped.

Crime against women, very clearly implies, that don't treat women as equal to men. Such narrow minded classifications, are orthodox, and regressive. Normally the self proclaimed women reformers are in the forefront, of always, classifying anything related to women in a very perverted manner. This is very dangerous for society, and is very destructive.A glaring example of this destruction, is the huge number of male suicides in India. Due to the biased Indian laws, tens of thousands of crores are wasted due to lost productivity of Men who get caught in false cases of crime against women.

 

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